Me and my Boyfriend ♥

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I am very proud to say that me and my partner, Mat, have been together for three solid years in Second Life. I still find myself chuckling whenever I remember how I met him. I was on a dance pole, doing my sexy dances when I saw him landed at The Pink Velvet Club. He was wearing this odd looking beach shorts with a noobie skin and hair. I said Hi to him and he was nice enough to go on the couch and started talking to me. He was a gentleman and quite generous with tips, to think I did not even take off my bikinis. We started talking about where we were located in RL and pretty much talked about each other’s real stuff. I thought he was just one of those men who will talk to me today and never again tomorrow, it was an SL stripper thing – LOL .. by the way, he never asked for sex No No No!

Click on video above – this was my gift for Mat on Valentines Day 2013

Mat and I are friends first, then lovers. The constant conversation on Skype and knowing that he would stay up until 1 AM for me even if he has to work at 7 am the next day, made me realize that this guy must be up to something “nice”. I get excited when he goes online and I love spending countless hours with him – there is never a dull moment with my love. We love to laugh, watch movies online, we love to make fun of people – and each other too LOL. When he finally asked me if he can add me to real life Facebook, I was so happy, and then one day he told me that, he would love to make our relationship a real one and that there is no need for him to be on SL all the time since he has always wanted me to be his Real Life love … I almost faint! After 3 years, we are still together … we had our ups and downs, we went through it all. I am very happy that we were able to endure each other’s dramatic moment.

It is never easy to have this virtual and long distance relationship. He is from Canada, I am from the Philippines. Since we want to make it work, we work hard to make it work. My frustration of being away from him, not being able to cuddle, kiss and hold hands is really heartbreaking but I need to accept it because that is how it is for now. If there is anything that I really treasure about my relationship with Mat is that we have created our own world on SL. We have a beautiful beach home, we have a stubborn perverted cat, Sphynx, we both love to put our avatars in awkward positions (LOL) and we just enjoy discovering new things inworld.

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I don’t really know if it is still possible but, maybe someday, me and my love, Mat, will meet in real life. If not, I will still treasure the good  times and will wish him the best as I know, that he has a good heart. Second Life has been good to me, Mat is one of it’s amazing gifts and it is also a reason why I still believe there are good people in the community. I know for a fact there are genuine real love stories on SL and I hope that you will find and make your own love story too. Love love love ❤

Dawn’s Avatar Detail

Head ::: Logo Alex Mesh Head and Aria Dark Tone from Lara Hurley

Hair ::: Foxy by Truth Hair

Footwear ::: Lucy Wedges in Rose from CandyDoll

Top ::: Cropped Top in Pink from Blueberry

Bottom ::: Sylvia Shorts in White from Blueberry

Mat’s Avatar Detail

Head :::  Belleza

Body ::: The Mesh Project (TMP)

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Decorations

Pet ::: French Bulldog from O.M.E.N. for The Arcade Gacha gift

Pose on Couch ::: Gamer Couple from Belle Poses for Winter Trend 2015

Pose Standing ::: 111 from Pose Maniacs

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Explore like a Bee Inworld ♥

 

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When I created my Second Life, I was aiming to be a singer because I just love singing. I do not have a professional singing voice but I believe I can carry a tune (Reverb effects can make a huge difference LOL). It was my real life cousin who told me that I can be anything I want to be in this virtual community. I signed up on year 2012 but it was year 2013 when I decided to download the SL viewer and first logged in to SL. Inworld was a beauty but I do not know where to go and what to do. I kept asking myself what is there to do on Second Life?

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Exploring the grid is a must if you are a new resident. There are many creative people who invested a lot of time, money and creativity on the many sims. I always say that Second Life is a fantasy world, therefore one must make the most of it. From the majestic castles and manors to the amazing villages created for those who love to role play … you can’t help but just be in awe. Do not forget to visit underwater sights, so many residents have created sea creatures that are beyond your imagination. Always visit the Second Life Destination Guide for more information on where to find the best sims to explore.

If you love music and want to entertain people, you can try and be a singer, dancer, hostess or a club DJ. There are clubs or groups that offers training if you want to be employed inworld. You can also be a fashion designer, a model, builder of residential and commercial structures.

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I mentioned I love singing but my dream of becoming a singer on SL has not happened yet, but I am getting there slowly – I just need to practice more at those cute Karaoke bars inworld. Right now, I am just enjoying being a DJ, an assistant manager of a very popular strip club and a blogger … as you can see, I am a busy bee on SL (LOL). Whenever I have nothing to do, I still explore the gorgeous sims of the grid and make friends with some of the residents I bump into. It is always fun to meet new people, you learn from them and they learn from you.

I hope you will find new things to do on Second Life and take advantage of the beauty of this community. If you happen to see me, please say Hi … don’t worry, I don’t bite at all :p

My outfit

Hair ::: Emerson Blonde from Truth Hair

Clothing ::: Body Suit in Black from Moonstore & Xbody Mainstore

Shoes ::: Queluz Pump from Hucci Mainstore

Jewelries ::: Pearl Rain Fatpack from Mandala Mainstore

Sims ::: Just Another Tequila Sunrise and ~O~ Karaoke Lounge

Solitude ♥

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There are times that I just enjoy being alone in Second Life and Real Life. I can accomplish many things when I am focused to what I am doing, and it is when all the creative juices comes out. I do want to be with someone someday, hopefully that someone is very good in conversation. I would love to be with someone who I will learn from and who can speak his mind. Most of my friends in RL got married and then get preggy in their early 20s … yup, after our College graduation. I can’t help but ask, “Why did you even go to College when all you really dreamed of is to cook for your husband and do the whole family’s laundry?” I just don’t get it but then, who am I to judge? It is not a sin to choose having a family over career. To each his own. Perhaps, I am just still selfish and can not give up my ambition.

People make their own destiny and it is wise to choose a path that will make you happy. After all, it is your life. If in the end, I will live all by myself, alone … I just hope I won’t be lonely.

The What Next store is an amazing sim. All of their items were scattered all over the place and so the splash of colors are just everywhere. I was able to use the outdoor decors as demos and took advantage of some of them for my photo shoot. Many of my home decors are from this store and they are always good quality.

My outfit

Hair :::  Gift Truth Hair

Top ::: Madeon Checked Jacket Red from Emery

Bottom :::  Nina Zip Leggings Charcoal Print from  Miss Chelsea for Uber Event

Footwear :::  Kiki Booties Burnt from Baiastice

Jewelry ::: Anchor Necklace Rose from Paper Arrow

Sim ::: What Next Store